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Thursday, August 5, 2010

Out of Our Comfort Zone...

When Greg and I started out on our adoption journey, we had determined in our minds that we would not fund raise. Rather, we would somehow be able to manage this on our own...Well, I guess as it always seems, the moment you set out in your heart that you can do something on your own, without help, God goes on a mission to teach you a lesson. Friends and family approached us a few times earlier this year about trying put together an event to help us out financially. After much hesitation, and tens of thousands of dollars later, we found ourselves agreeing to some help. ;)

With that being said, here are some of our events and fundraising efforts that we have going on:

  • T-Shirt Sales - Adult and Youth sizes available: XXL, XL, L, M, S, XS, YL, YM, YS, YXS - $20 donation for adult/$15 donation for youth size (design close up picture is on previous post)

  • Family Adoption BBQ - August 21st - Open House- from 4-8 PM  - @ Cedar Lane Pavilion behind Laurel Hill Bible Church  - Enjoy Bob Conrad's awesome cooking, games, and FUN!
                     Adult - $15, Kids (6-13)- $7, Kids (<5) FREE  -
                                 Tickets are $3 more at the door

  • Beef and Beer- September 11th-  6-11PM   
     Democrat Club in Blackwood - Tickets are $25 each 

**If you are unable to attend either of these events, 
but would still like to support, you may purchase tickets anyway,
just let me know so we can get a head count for food**

AND , Last, but not least....this one's my favorite, b/c it doesn't require any $$ on your part...
  • Turn in your old gadgets (ipods, video games, cell phones, etc) that are cluttering your drawers and closets to gazelle , and we get their value in donation $!! They even send you a pre-paid shipping label! Follow the link to the right side of our blog.
If you would like to purchase a t-shirt, or get tickets for either events, please e-mail me at sonflowerjax@comcast.net , and I will send you your tickets/shirts.  You can pay via pay pal on line using your credit card (follow the link on the right) or mail us a check. 

Of course, we also welcome your prayer support. I know that the peace we have had through this entire process is because there are so many people that we have praying for us- and that means SO MUCH to us.

Well, here we are- outside our comfort zone, welcoming the help of our family and friends....
Thank you in advance!
Love,
Liz & Greg

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Update...again and T-SHIRTS FOR SALE!

This afternoon I received a call from our agency who was clarifying the "when does/did the wait officially begin?" question.

GOOD NEWS! Our wait DID officially begin back on May 19th (according to their computer systems this is the day they sent our Dossier to Russia) when we sent our dossier over. Side note: I have our DTR date as May 25th...and am keeping it that way, because that's the date I knew that it was officially over there.

SO- that means that we are almost to our 3 month wait mark...where does the time go?  And, while we were told that the estimated wait time for a referral is 3-6 months from May 19th, it could be sooner, or later than that...it just depends on which children become available for international adoption that are currently in "the system."

On another note, here's a picture of the art work on the front of our adoption t-shirt. Greg and I came up with the idea, but all the designing was done by an awesome artist at our church, Bob. He's been so patient with us through all of our "change this", and "wait, can we do this..." e-mails. THANK YOU BOB!

 If you would like to purchase a shirt, you can click on my paypal account on the right, or just e-mail me, if we live close. They are $20 for adult sizes, and $15 for youth. We should have them in by late next week!


Saturday, July 24, 2010

Update from our Agency...

It wasn't the news I was hoping for, but either way...it's still good! We got an e-mail from our agency today that our dossier has been translated and "officialized" in Russia. Our contact over there is waiting for the MOE to register it. THEN, our "official wait" begins. This is the part I was disappointed by- I thought that the wait we were given (3-6 months) included this translation/registration process...and it still might- I have an e-mail out to our agency to clarify this. But, I took her e-mail to read that our 3-6 month wait starts now...or sometime very soon when the MOE does register us officially to the Moscow Region.

I'm trying to stay positive about the possiblity of traveling before summer's end (being a teacher, that would be WAY easier than leaving a brand new set of kids in the beginning of the year). I know that our Russia contact has had us on his radar already now for a few months...so it is possible he could have a referral in mind for us, but just needed to get us "official." --hoping for that to be the case! :)

The other thing the e-mail said was that the region of Moscow has been moving quickly...another good sign! 

So, the wait continues...begins?...no, ...continues. :)

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Whew!

So much has happened these past few days in trying to finish up all the non time sensative documents that we need to have completed for our second dossier! I feel like I would be writing a book if I shared all of the hangups that were then answered by prayer. But, that is in part why I started this blog- to journal all of the amazing miracles that God does along the journey- so, here it goes!

I must have made at least 3 extra trips over to our notary- thank God she is so kind, because I would notice a mistake, or have the wrong date...and she was a saint through it all!

While all these trips to our notary were happening, I was double checking our paperwork to make sure all the notary dates matched the dates on the documents, and found that our letter from the NJ State Board of Medical Examiners was not notorized...it was just sealed with their NJME seal!  Knowing Greg was going on Wednesday (and this all happened on Tuesday) to get our documents apostilled in Trenton, I had to get them to send me a new letter that was notorized. After going back and forth on the phone with this department, and going from "we don't even have a notary on our floor, in our department" to asking our agency if an astentation sheet was acceptable to Russia. After a long day back and forth on the phone, the kind lady at the Medical Board of Examiners' office said she personally printed out the letters we needed, and ran them down to another floor in her building and found someone who could notorize them for us! WHO HOO! The next step was seeing if I could get to those letters by the next day (this was about 5 o'clock that we finally had the letters we needed notorized). We found out that the building the ME office is in, is not too far away from the department of NJ who apostilles. So, yesterday, Greg just drove to the ME office first, picked up those letters, and then went to have everything apostilled.

Last night, it felt so good to know the documents were out of our hands, and being taken care of (with only a little concern that they would be done incorrectly...that did happen to us on our first dossier, and we had to drive up to Trenton again to re-do a document)...little did we know last night what we'd be in for this morning...

Fast forward to this morning at about 7:15. I awake to "Liz, where's the number to the apostille office?" Me: "In my phone, why?" Greg: "The guy checked off to have everything certified, not apostilled! I must have told him like 6 times 'apostille!' " (NOT exactly my favorite way to jump start my morning...I'd rather leave it to the caffeine..rather than a good scare!)  So, we called the office about every 5 minutes, until we finally got ahold of someone- and got transferred to this nice lady who calmly said, "oh, I think I apostilled your documents yesterday." To which I replied, "Apostilled? Did you see that they were incorrectly checked off to be certified?" And, she said, "Yes, I did, but I saw 'Russia' on it, and knew they needed to be apostilled." THANK YOU LORD!  It took everything within me to hold back the tears of relief!  I had visions of me having to re-do those 32 documents!  She also told me she put them in the Fed Ex drop yesterday, and we should be getting them today.

Lo and behold- as I am typing this now- I got the FedEx delivery- and I stopped my typing, and checked everything- ALL CORRECT! I feel so so relieved!

So, the only documents we have left to be done for our second dossier is our Medicals (need to be within 3 months of court date), FBI Clearance forms (should be getting those in the next few weeks), and another "updated" copy of our NJ Criminal Clearance forms- they also must be dated within 3 months of our court date.

So, those of you who are in this process might be thinking- wow, you don't even have a referral yet! How do you have all this done? And, I would answer, "Miraculously"  Since we know we are assigned to the Moscow region, we can do the Moscow specific Dossier #2, and there are only a few time sensative documents, so I figured I would take the time I have off this summer, and get as much of it done as I can. Our agency said we can hand carry over our second dossier if/when it is done on our first trip- and that will expedite the wait time between trips. Since we are expecting the wait between our trips (after we meet and spend a week with our child) to be much more difficult than this initial wait is, we thought it would be best to get on it as fast as we could...hoping that it will pay off later.

Well, I think this is enough blogging for one day- whew! Time to start the day!  As you can see, we could really use your continued prayers! You never know what each day is going to bring! 


Just in case you are wondering just how many documents we are talking about...and how many hours of hard work....here's a picture!


Saturday, July 17, 2010

It's cute...but is it a good sign, or a bad one?

Okay, so the baby's room seems to be Dakota's favorite hang out spot lately. I think it's adorable, and picture her sleeping by the crib when the baby is home. Honestly, I'm not worried about her adjusting at all. I know she is so good with kids- she lets my little cousins lay on her, and lift up her lippies, and play with her puddies (aka lips and paws for those of you who don't speak the cutsie doggie language that the "other" Mrs. Jackson has made up and I have taken on)  ;)
However...could she really be thinking, "ooh, I love that mom and dad have cleared out this whole room for me! That's awesome!" In that case, she is in for a rude awakening...hopefully sooner than later!

 Well, here's what I see everytime I walk by the room:


Oh, and another note on the baby's room- just seeing a picture of the room in this awful color is making me very antsy to get to the decorating of the room. Greg and I have poured over lots of bedding designs. We really like a good 3 or 4 of the gender neutral patterns, but there are SO many cute gender specific patterns, that we may just wait on picking and painting. But, who knows. We are both pretty spontaneous when it comes to starting something like painting a room, and so if we get the urge...we may just go with one of the gender neutral ones- and if not, then we'll wait to see whether we are going to have a boy or a girl!  Just thinking about it gets me excited about getting our referral call! I can't believe it's been 7 weeks since our dossier has been in Moscow! We were told a 2-6 month wait...so who knows...we could be getting this call in the next few weeks, or we could be waiting until October!

I'm thinking of putting a poll on the side of the blog to "predict/guess" what the gender will be- all those in favor...???

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Another plyushevogo mishku (Teddy Bear)

After finding out that our child will not be able to keep the teddy bear we are planning on bringing with us on the first trip, we went to Build-A-Bear to make a duplicate- I've been calling it "Mishku dvah" (which translates "teddy bear 2"). Okay, so the Russian word for Teddy Bear technically looks like this: плюшевого мишку  , but I have no idea how to pronounse that combination of letters and symbols, so I have to look to the pronunciation column in the dictionary- thank God for that column!

Anyway, the goal is to keep Mishku A-Din and Mishku Dvah in our bed to absorb all of our smells...I know, kinda gross, huh. But, since babies know smells, we are hoping this is a way to keep a piece of us with our baby in between trips. On our 2nd trip, we will be bringing our little one home- but before we do, we will be staying in the hotel for I believe about 10-14 days with him or her. During that time, we plan to try to get to the Moscow Mall and get a birth certificate printed up for Mishku Dvah that matches our little one's birth date, and name.

My two adorable cousins Hannah and Leah have been so excited and anxious to meet their new cousin (which, by the way- they are hoping for a girl!). They have even put together a little gift bag for the baby already with hand made crafts and cards- so so cute! I wanted them to be a part doing something special for the baby, so the three of us went together the other day to Build-a-Bear. Here are a few photos of Mishku A-din (1), and Mishku Dvah (2).

                                                                       Here they are!

The girls making sure the Mishkus are all clean!

All buckled in!



Tuesday, July 6, 2010

171-H Arrived!!!

This very important approval from the USCIS just arrived today! Praise God! :) One more document off the big check list!! 
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